Marriage, Couples & Family


We all desire respect and affection in the relationships that mean the most to us. Sometimes, we feel stuck. We don’t know how to move forward, and we are weary from repeating the same pattern over and over.

It’s normal to have ups and downs and to occasionally feel like we can’t move forward. Marriage, couples, and family counseling is a tool that can help you move through those difficult times and break through barriers to stronger and more fulfilling relationships.

NPS is a family counseling center that’s committed to helping couples and families communicate more effectively. We also help couples heal from the deeper wounds of betrayal, pornography, infidelity, or years of neglect. If you are interested, please come in for a no-charge, twenty-minute consultation. We will talk a bit and see if we are a good fit. Our heart’s desire is to help you take the next step and renew your hope.

Marriage, Couples & Family Counseling

  • Looking for ways to reconnect with one another?
  • Has trust been broken?
  • Still fighting and don’t know how to stop the pattern?
  • Want to restore the love you once had?
  • Recovering from infidelity?
  • Tired of the fighting?
  • Has your child shut you out?
  • Is your child experimenting with drugs?
  • Is it difficult to set consequences and follow through?
  • Do you and your spouse have different parenting styles?
  • Is there an overwhelming circumstance that is hurting your family?
  • Need help in co-parenting with your ex-spouse?


Kristina's View on Couples Counseling:

We live in a culture that constantly asks, “What about me?” So it’s no surprise that married couples find their way to therapy with a laundry list of what the other person isn’t providing. During couples counseling or marriage counseling, there are three distinct entities in the room: the husband, the wife, and the marriage. In order for the relationship to survive, each person must humbly recognize his and her contributions to the relationship—both positive and negative. As each person seeks to empower the other and look to the good of the other, the relationship thrives and grows. Kristina is a skilled mediator between all three entities (husband, wife and marriage), and she assists couples in achieving the best possible version of their lives together.

"Kristina Polley has the empathy, compassion, straight-forwardness, and experience that my husband and I needed to not only repair a marriage torn by infidelity and inadequate communication...."

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Dr. Neal’s View on Couples Counseling:

Having listened to couples in the therapy process for 35+ years, Dr. Neal has learned that most of the time, at the heart of the hurt and disconnect, every person primarily wants three things from an intimate partner. We want to be seen, we want to be heard, and we want to know that what we say and feel matters to the other person. It really doesn’t matter what the specifics are… those three things are as necessary to a relationship as air and water is to our life. 

Often couples come in and share openly and quite painfully that they feel disconnected or even repelled by their spouse. Dr. Neal has learned that there are three things critical to creating and maintaining a connection, having intimacy with one’s partner: safety, trust, and respect.

These are the bricks of a foundation that leads to connecting with another human. At the root of most struggling or pain-filled marriages, there is likely a story to be told about a breach in safety, trust, or respect.

If not attended to swiftly, then the old adage of “self-preservation is 9/10’s of the law” kicks in, and the person begins to drift away, or a veil of protection drops around him/herself.  And, thus the “room-mating” starts, which is incredibly unfulfilling. Add on the stressors of finances, work commitments, child-rearing, home responsibilities, or extended family issues, and it’s a recipe for two overwhelmed, extremely fatigued people who live in the mire of sadness, anger, or resentment. 

Dr. Neal tells couples that there is always hope for their relationship if both are willing to do hard, interpersonal work. Both must strive to understand how they have come to be in their current situation, and both must be willing to face their own flaws and shortcomings in the relationship.

Being straightforward and highly interactive, he helps identify the underlying issues that have provoked hurt in one or both partners in the relationship. He helps create a practical plan with steps toward healing, and he equips couples to persevere through life’s challenges with kids, money, and stress. If the couple identifies with issues of faith, he openly integrates healing principles of faith. He tells his couples to inform him when they have given up because—given the right plan of restoration—he is always last to stop believing that there is hope for every marriage to be mutually satisfying and go the distance for decades.

For many years, area churches, doctors, and lawyers have recognized Dr. Neal’s adeptness in difficult marriage counseling and couples counseling issues, and have referred their clients and church members to him.

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Dr. Douglas Neal, PSY.D 

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Kristina Polley, RN, LCSW

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Zach Neal, MA

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